‘The fight of our lives:’ Pro-life conference hears the ‘medical myths” on abortion

PHOENIX — In its effort to protect life inside the womb, the pro-life community faces not only abortion backers, but are working against a second foe, one veteran women’s health care provider told a conference on life at a Diocesan parish this past weekend.

“There is so much misinformation out there,” said Dr. Ingrid Skop, an obstetrician and gynecologist who has spent more than 30 years in private practice.

Dr. Ingrid Skop pauses while discussing the medical myths surrounding abortion prior to The Truth Set Us Free Conference at St. Gregory Parish in Phoenix Saturday, April 20, 2024. PHOTO by Jeff Grant/THE CATHOLIC SUN

The public isn’t getting the facts to make an intelligent decision, Skop asserted while preparing to discuss “medical myths” about abortion to more than 50 lay women and men at St. Gregory Parish’s The Truth Set Us Free conference Saturday.

She cited one example.

“There is a lack of data, particularly about abortion drugs,” she said.

A health care provider who has delivered more than 5,000 babies and personally cared for many women who have been physically or emotionally harmed by abortion, Dr. Skop pointed to several other areas where the gap between fiction and reality is clouding the discussion:
* what women experience;
* how developmental abnormalities are successfully treated;
* survival rates for “life-limiting” fetal conditions;
* safety, and
* survival rates of “aborted” babies.

AN INCOMPLETE PICTURE

A Catholic, and a fellow of the American Congress of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG), as well as a married mother of three children with her physician husband, Dr. Skop said mainstream media and abortion supporters often paint an incomplete or misleading picture.

A board member and medical director for pregnancy resource centers in San Antonio, Austin and Houston, Texas, Skop is vice president and director of medical affairs for Lozier Institute, a national, private pro-life research and education body based in Arlington, Va.

She and her colleagues use science-driven data and studies to advise legislators, policymakers and the media on a broad spectrum of topics, including abortion, women’s health, prenatal diagnosis and treatment for the unborn, perinatal hospice, stem-cell research, health care policy, “and much more,” according to Lozier’s website.

The institute’s research was cited in 17 amicus curea or “friend of the court” briefs filed in the Dobbs v. Jackson, the United States Supreme Court case that overturned the 1973 Roe v. Wade ruling legalizing abortion at the federal level.

Organized by the Diocese of Phoenix’s Office of Respect Life Ministries and the Respect Life Ministry at St. Gregory, the conference featured Skop as its keynote.

Other speakers included diocesan Respect Life Office manager Marina Salvador-Velazquez; Susan B. Anthony Pro-Life America Arizona State Director Marilyn Birnbaum; and Rosie Villegas-Smith, founder of Voces Unidas.

AMERICAN PUBLIC ‘GASLIGHTED’

Dr. Skop said abortion advocates and the mainstream media are main drivers of the information gap.

“The American public has been gaslighted for 50 years,” she said, referencing the time the nation was guided by Roe v. Wade. When the court struck that decision down nearly 2 years ago, it concluded there is no federal constitutional right to abortion, leaving it to individual states to decide the issue.

Arizona recently drew the national spotlight with the state Supreme Court’s April 9 decision to uphold a near-total ban.

That ruling kept in place a pre-Roe law outlawing the procedure in all cases, including rape and incest, unless it preserves the life of the woman.

That law supersedes a 2022 edict allowing abortion thru the first 15 weeks of pregnancy.

However, a pro-abortion organization is working to have placed before voters this November a measure that would be enshrined in the state constitution, permanently allowing abortions without restriction.

Arizona Catholic Conference, the public policy agency for the Diocese of Gallup, the Diocese of Phoenix, the Diocese of Tucson and the Holy Protection of Mary Byzantine Catholic Eparchy of Phoenix, issued a Feb. 2 statement, urging the public against signing the ballot petition.

Should the initiative pass, “our own Arizona Legislators could lose the ability to regulate abortion in any way, leaving us with the potential for fully unrestricted abortion,” the bishops stated, adding, “(the proposal’s) vague language would make Arizona one of the most extreme states in terms of abortion.”

READ the full statement here: https://azcatholicconference.org/featured/do-not-sign-abortion-campaign-in-arizona/

READ the ballot proposal for A.R.S. 19-111 here: https://apps.arizona.vote/electioninfo/assets/47/0/BallotMeasures/I-05-2024%20Arizona%20for%20Abortion%20Access.pdf

READ the bishops of the Arizona Catholic Conference statement on the Ariz. Supreme Court abortion opinion here: https://azcatholicconference.org/colums-and-statements/bishops-of-the-arizona-catholic-conference-statement-on-az-supreme-court-abortion-opinion/

“You have a stark choice in Arizona,” noted Dr. Skop, cautioning on unrestricted procedures without safety standards. “Some really bad behavior happens when nobody is supervising abortions,” she said.

With limits, she explained, there are fewer abortions as well as a tendency away from behavior that leads women where they find themselves having to consider ending a pregnancy.

“People who have promiscuous sexual activity either stop or do things to prevent pregnancy,” she said. “We’re going to have fewer unwanted pregnancies because people modify their behavior.”

This is dramatically at odds with pro-abortionists, who say that women should have the right to choose what to do with their bodies – from sexual activity to ending a pregnancy.

Such a choice, however, ignores reality, Skop argues.

“Abortion harms women — emotionally, psychologically. There is six times the risk of suicide in the year following an abortion.”

Physical complications are more common than what the public is told, she asserted.

U.S. DATA FLAWS

The doctor cited other misinformation.

“Complications and deaths are much, much higher than U.S. data indicate. Most of our data come from abortion-industry researchers,” she noted. In Europe, where most countries fund abortions through a single-payer health care system, the issue is far less politicized, so the data is more reliable, she explained.

Her organization, Lozier, said U.S. data is growing worse.

With no comprehensive, universal repository, the Centers for Disease Control relies on state-level numbers. But reporting isn’t mandatory, and some states don’t participate.

These include California, believed to have the nation’s highest volume of abortions.

Activists often rely on data from entities such as Guttmacher Institute, which describes itself as opposing gestational limits “at any stage in pregnancy.”

PILL USAGE

One thing is clear: Pill usage is up significantly since the Dobbs ruling.

Skop said abortion drugs are “very dangerous.”

The Food and Drug Administration has “essentially removed all safeguards” on drugs, she said.

These pills, ordered online and delivered by mail, often come not from a doctor treating a woman but an online abortion pill service such as AidAccess.

“I’m caring for more women harmed by abortion drugs now than I did prior to Dobbs because there’s no doctor involved,” Skop said. “A lot of states have enacted laws protecting out-of-state doctors who prescribe drugs that harm a woman. There is no ultrasound, no pre-abortion test — no one knows who’s ordering these drugs. A lot of them are coming from international manufacturers.”

Other conference speakers pointed to misinformation.

Voces Unidas founder Rosie Villegas-Smith, whose organization advocates for the unborn as well as migrant families, said that women migrants — after arriving in the U.S. — are often approached by groups such as Planned Parenthood. Villegas-Smith said that one woman told her she underwent an abortion without any prenatal counseling.

Voces Unidas founder Rosie Villegas-Smith address The Truth Set Us Free Conference at St. Gregory Parish in Phoenix Saturday, April 20, 2024. PHOTO by Jeff Grant/THE CATHOLIC SUN

“They go after minority women who don’t have enough information. They’re preying on them. This is racist,” Villegas-Smith said.

“Don’t say this is an abortion — it’s a victim. This is a baby,” she continued, displaying a photograph of a fetus at 10 weeks, with clearly developing head, torso, hands, and feet.

Skop echoed the point.

“From a human-rights perspective, it’s scientifically undeniable that the unborn human is a living genetically distinct human. He has totally different genetics than his mother. He’s in her body, he’s not part of her body.”

SOCIAL RESPONSIBILITY

Skop said it’s incumbent upon the public to do its homework.

Many OB-GYNs fear speaking, she added.

Skop said that 2 years ago, the American Board of Obstetrics and Gynecology (ABOG) — notified providers they could lose their board certification if they spread misinformation about “essential reproductive health care.”

“That has a chilling effect, particularly on younger obstetricians,” she said.

Attendees said the conference gave them valuable insight.

“It’s just so overwhelming — this whole issue,” said Jeri Spencer, a parishioner of St. Henry in Buckeye.

A close family member had been raped and used an abortion pill afterward, unaware of the numerous Church resources, Spencer explained.

“People need to know how much help and encouragement there is from our Church,’ she said.

“It’s always been a struggle to talk to people about life, especially in cases of rape and abortion, and for those who don’t believe in God (for) them to understand every life is precious,” said Mary Ellen Candra, a parishioner at Our Lady of Joy in Carefree.

Candra was particularly struck by the advice of one speaker.

Maria Birnbaum, the Arizona state director for Susan B. Anthony Pro-Life America, told the conference that compassion is pivotal in changing hearts and minds of abortion supporters.

“Assume first that (they’re) a good person; that they have a good and compassionate heart, and that it’s possible in our world to be trapped in a bubble of lies, and that stream (of lies) sounds so good, because the Devil is so good about making something so horrific feel so good and loving and compassionate,” she said.

Later, Birnbaum urged those in the pews to educate themselves and engage.

“A lot of people make this mistake of thinking the bishop or a pastor can just say this one thing and everybody in the Catholic Church all of a sudden will not want to have an abortion. It’s still the duty of every single person in every pew to reach out,” she said.

“This is the fight of our lives.”

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NEWS BRIEF: Bishop Dolan thanks supporters at Shepherd’s Circle Mass & Brunch 

Bishop John Dolan welcomed and thanked donors at the annual Shepherd’s Circle Mass and Brunch on Sunday morning at Xavier College Preparatory in Phoenix.  Shepherd’s Circle is a group of more than 600 families who donate $5,000 or more annually to support any combination of diocesan initiatives, including the Charity and Development Appeal, the Together Let Us Go Forth – Juntos Sigamos Adelante Campaign, Priests for Our Future, Catholic School Support 365, Mental Health Ministry and the weekly televised Mass.

The event celebrated the tremendous growth in the diocese and the impact donors make in the life of the Church. Speakers, including Fr. Matt Lowry, Fr. Kurt Perera and Fr. Greg Schlarb, shared stories about college life at three Newman Centers in our diocese, and the vision for expanding the Nazareth Seminary in the Diocese of Phoenix.

Bishop Dolan encouraged attendees to honor the human dignity of each and every person, knowing all persons are made in the image and likeness of God.  He said, “Jesus is inviting us to be Good Shepherds. We are called to be shepherds, and to look for the sheep around us.  Let us see others in the image of Christ.  We belong to each other, we support and shepherd each other, and we care for one another.  Thank you for the gift that you are.”

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Diocese announces outreach ministry for infertility

The Office of Natural Family Planning at the Diocese of Phoenix has announced plans for a new ministry to serve couples in the season of infertility establishing St. Gerard’s Outreach Ministry.

Since 2013, couples who are struggling through infertility have gathered each May for the annual St. Gerard’s Mass to pray together and support each other. The Office of Natural Family Planning, in celebration of its 50th anniversary, is launching an outreach initiative aimed at serving them and their pastors throughout the year.

“It is our hope to provide information, referrals and training to parishes who wish to better minister to their parishioner couples struggling through a season of infertility.  It will become this ministry’s mission to raise awareness about the difficult and heavy cross that couples go through,” said Armida Escarcega, diocesan coordinator of the Office of Natural Family Planning. “Infertility can be a heavy cross, one which is made all the more difficult when the couples feel that they are alone. We aim to change that”.

Plans also include changing the St. Gerard’s Mass into a yearly retreat for couples who want to come and place this burden at the feet of our Lord and our Lady, a day for recollection and peace.

The inaugural event is the first diocesan-led retreat for those struggling with infertility.  “Cherished” is being sponsored by the newly-named St. Gerard’s Outreach, and led by Springs in the Desert, a Catholic infertility ministry to couples in this state of life.  It will be held Saturday, May 11, from 8:30 a.m. to 5 p.m. at Mount Claret Retreat Center in Phoenix, ending with a special Sunday vigil Mass.

For more information or to register for the retreat, please visit https://dphx.jotform.com/form/240076088514052 or call the NFP Office at 602-354-2122.

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Spring semester: ‘School of Prayer’ now in session for Holy Year finals

By Carol Glatz, Catholic News Service

VATICAN CITY (CNS) — Every important journey should be preceded by adequate preparation, and the run-up to the Holy Year 2025 is no exception.

Pope Francis asked Catholics to get ready for the jubilee journey with a Year of Prayer and now, a few months after the year was officially announced, a kind of prayer prep-school is in session.

Every jubilee asks pilgrims to come to Rome ready, not just with lodging and logistics, but, most of all, with the right spiritual disposition, which is a heart ready to welcome the gifts of grace and forgiveness the jubilee offers.

“I ask you to intensify your prayer to prepare us to live well this event of grace and to experience the strength of God’s hope,” the pope said when he formally announced the Year of Prayer at his Jan. 21 Angelus. The year is “dedicated to rediscovering the great value and absolute need for prayer in personal life, in the life of the church and in the world.”

“Teach Us to Pray” is a resource available online in English and other languages from the Dicastery for Evangelization’s section for new evangelization, which is coordinating the Holy Year.

The 75-page booklet, it said, “is intended to be used by the faithful during this time of preparation for the opening of the Holy Door.”

“Let us immerse ourselves through prayer in an ongoing dialogue with the Creator, discovering the joy of silence, the peace of abandonment and the power of intercession in the communion of saints,” it said.

To help the faithful “renew the spirit of prayer in all those situations in which we are called to live in daily life,” it said, there are different sections focused on different facets of life.

“Each part — from the meaning of personal prayer to its practice in community life — offers reflections, guidance and advice for living more fully in dialogue with the Lord present in our relationship with others and in every moment of our day,” it said. There are also sections dedicated to young people, sanctuaries and spiritual retreats.

The booklet is just one of the materials the dicastery is sharing online at evangelizatio.va and on the Holy Year website, iubilaeum2025.va.

The “Notes on Prayer” series, produced by the dicastery, is on sale in Italian, but as of April 17 there was no date for when the eight booklets will be ready in English. The bishops of Spain have translated the first two volumes and made them available with many other materials at haciaeljubileo.com.

The texts carry titles such as “Praying today. A challenge,” “The Parables of Prayer,” “Praying with Saints and Sinners,” “Mary’s prayer,” and “The Prayer Jesus Taught Us: The ‘Our Father.'”

The plan is to make them available to the world’s bishops’ conferences and dioceses.

In the meantime, there is no shortage of other study material.

There are 38 talks dedicated to prayer Pope Francis gave during his Wednesday general audiences between May 2020 and June 2021. While they are not organized in a cohesive format, readers can scroll through the Vatican’s archive at vatican.va to find them in nine languages.

The dicastery is also sharing links to resources and initiatives organized by others and open to everyone.

For example, the Canadian bishops’ conference is offering a series of eight free-access webinars on prayer in English and French.

Titled, “A Great Symphony of Prayer,” the webinars run in April and October to “delve deeper into the themes highlighted in the ‘Notes on Prayer’ series,” it said. “The meetings will be recorded and made available, with a commentary, on the website of the Canadian Episcopal Conference www.cccb.ca at the end of the series.”

The pope inaugurated his own “School of Prayer” in April when he met with about 200 children attending their catechism class in a Rome parish. The “school” is a series of encounters where the pope will meet with different groups of people to pray together and discuss the various forms of prayer such as thanksgiving, intercession, contemplative prayer, consolation, adoration and supplication.

The pope’s lesson with the children preparing for their first Communion was on the theme of prayers of thanksgiving. He said, “It is important to say thank you for everything.”

Even when there are difficulties and conflicts in the world, Pope Francis told them there is always something to thank God for, encouraging them to think before they go to sleep, “‘What can I thank the Lord for?’ And give thanks.”

He gave them a special prayer of thanks composed for the occasion; the prayer thanked God for the gift of life, the gift of parents, the gift of creation, the gift of Jesus, who is “our brother and savior, friend of the small and the poor” and the gift of his love.

As usual, the pope hopes his initiatives inspire others.

In the preface to the first book in the “Notes on Prayer” series, the pope wrote, “I am certain that bishops, priests, deacons and catechists will find in this year appropriate ways to place prayer at the heart of the proclamation of hope that the 2025 Jubilee will make resound in this troubled time.”

Prayer is not a “magic wand,” the pope has said, but it is through prayer that “a new incarnation of the Word takes place.”

“We are the ‘tabernacles’ where the words of God seek to be welcomed and preserved, so that they may visit the world,” he said Jan. 27, 2021, during an audience talk on prayer.

“The Word inspires good intentions and sustains action; it gives us strength and serenity, and even when it challenges us, it gives us peace,” he said.

Editors:
Resources are available online at these links:

“Teach Us to Pray” text in English, Spanish and other languages: https://www.iubilaeum2025.va/en/giubileo-2025/verso-il-giubileo/2024-anno-della-preghiera/insegnaci-a-pregare.html

Pope Francis’ catechesis on prayer from May 6, 2020, to June 16, 2021.
https://www.vatican.va/content/francesco/en/audiences/2020.index.2.html
https://www.vatican.va/content/francesco/en/audiences/2021.index.2.html

Webinar series by the Canadian Bishops’ Commission in charge of organizing the Holy Year 2025:
https://www.iubilaeum2025.va/en/notizie/comunicati/2024/a-great-symphony-prayer-webinar-inglese-francese.html

Resources in Spanish to prepare for the Holy Year 2025 by the bishops’ conference of Spain: https://haciaeljubileo.com/

Pope urges brothers working with youth to bring them hope

By Carol Glatz, Catholic News Service

VATICAN CITY (CNS) — Be loving and compassionate fathers to the marginalized, Pope Francis told members of the Brothers of Christian Instruction, commonly known as the La Mennais Brothers.

“Your vocation impels you to go where others do not go, to the periphery, to the people who belong to the ranks of the rejected, those wounded by life and victims,” he told the group during an audience at the Vatican April 22.

“May your presence be a source of hope for many,” especially as so many people in the world have been “disfigured by wars, indifference and the rejection of the weakest,” he said.

The pope met with brothers taking part in their general chapter meeting near Rome March 26-April 24. The delegates re-elected Haitian Brother Hervé Zamor as superior general. The congregation, made up of more than 760 brothers, is divided into 11 provinces on five continents.

The pope recognized their work in regions of the world “where poverty, youth unemployment and social crises of all kinds rage.”

“I urge you, therefore, to be fathers to those whom you are sent to, fathers who reflect the loving and compassionate face of God,” he said.

Young people have dreams, the pope said, “but today, for so many reasons, they are shattered dreams. May you help them to revive their dreams, to believe in them and to realize them!”

He also urged them to help those children who have experienced war to learn to smile again. “War does this: it makes children lose their smiles.”

Our bodies aren’t the problem

Part three in a series of Kirsten Bublitz’ experience taking the Fifth Vital Sign classes through the Office of Natural Family Planning. Catch up on earlier articles, part one and part two

“Charting can turn into a prayer. Bring your charts to the Lord,” NFP instructor, Beth Kopczyk said to a class full of women during the third 5th Vital Sign course. She’d just shared her testimony, and I felt my heart being moved to do just as Kopczyk recommended, to include the Lord in my charting experience, even while being single with no possibility of children in this season.

Kopczyk’s words reminded me of all the times I’d brought my sorrows to the Lord related to my cycle, going to Him in frustration with the body that He gave me, not understanding at the time the signs my body was giving me and telling me that something was off.

Later in the class as Haley Yeager, another NFP instructor with the diocese, went on to explain menstrual bleeding and more signs the body gives us, I couldn’t help but think of all the signs my body gave me years ago. I thought back to those days of frustration when I didn’t understand my body and left feeling broken, like the Lord had given me something unfixable. And the worst part, for much of my tumultuous high school and college days, I felt like I didn’t have an OBGYN who could advocate for me and help me solve what I thought were problems. I sometimes went months without menstruating and other times menstruated so much that it scared me.

After years of not understanding my body, I felt led to Morning Star OBGYN, even though I was living in Flagstaff, Ariz. at the time. After my first appointment at Morning Star, for the first time, I saw that my body wasn’t the problem. And now after taking this class, I’m starting to see that my body was giving me signs all those years. How blessed we are to live in a diocese that has options for women to seek help that isn’t just putting a bandaid on the signs the body is giving us but is listening to those signs and seeking solutions.

Ever since Kopczyk suggested to turn my charting into a prayer, I’ve realized that I haven’t fully thanked the Lord for all He’s done to help me understand my body. It was easy to go to Him when I was distraught, confused and trying to “fix” my body. But how quickly I forget the little blessings of having a regular cycle and ovulating monthly and not having debilitating menstrual pain. I feel invited to go to Him with all I’ve learned in this class and praise Him for the beautiful body He gave me that is constantly speaking a language and showing me signs of His love.

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Embracing the sacramental tapestry: A personal journey through Easter reflections

My heart is drawn to the profound significance of the Easter season—a time to immerse oneself in the beauty of the sacraments, a time for spiritual renewal and a time to uplift those embarking on their own sacramental journeys. It is during this period that we, as a faith community, come together to reflect on the promises made, the names bestowed, and the divine missions entrusted to us.

As I was preparing for my Confirmation in the 7th or 8th grade, I vividly remember the call to be a soldier for Christ, inspired by an image of St. Michael the Archangel, adorned in soldier regalia. This encounter sparked a decision that would shape my spiritual identity. I chose Michael as my Confirmation name.

John Patrick Michael Dolan became not just a name but a proclamation of faith, a good Irish name weaving together the earthly and the divine. A name given at Baptism, entwined with a name chosen at Confirmation—each carrying its own resonance in the sacramental symphony of my life. In this symphony, our names play a pivotal role, comprising the baptismal name selected by our parents and the saint-inspired Confirmation name chosen by our hearts.

Take a moment to reflect on your names, for they are not arbitrary labels but vessels carrying the weight of divine purpose. Our names become invitations, beckoning our patron saints into the ordinary moments of our lives. In choosing us, these saints become companions on our journey.

We see the importance of names through familiar stories in the Bible, where God bestows new names upon individuals, marking a transformation. Abram becomes Abraham, Sarai becomes Sarah, Simon becomes Peter, and Saul becomes Paul. In the act of renaming, a sacred mission is entrusted, a calling to embody the virtues of love, compassion, and fidelity. When we are initiated into God’s family through Baptism, we are gifted with a baptismal name, usually the name given at birth, but we are also given the name of Christian —a shared identity that binds us as soldiers for Christ and ambassadors of God’s love.

The Easter season is the perfect time to reflect on these sacramental truths. It is a season where we renew our baptismal promises—promises that bind us to the eternal covenant of grace. It is a time when we extend our prayers to those newly initiated into the Church, as well as to those receiving the sacraments of Confirmation and First Holy Communion. Their journey, like ours, is a sacred unfolding of purpose and mission.

On a specific day, within the sacred confines of a parish, each of us took on a new identity. We were given our baptismal names and collectively became Christians. I encourage you to find your baptismal certificate and celebrate the day that marks the beginning of your journey. Let it be a moment of reflection, gratitude and recommitment to the divine mission inherent in your Christian name.

Easter beckons us to dive deeper into the sacramental wellspring of our faith. It is a time to embrace our names, invite our patron saints into our lives, and reflect on the divine missions entrusted to us as soldiers for Christ. As we celebrate the Resurrection, let us also celebrate the sacramental tapestry that weaves our earthly names into the eternal narrative of God’s love.

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NEWS BRIEF: Pastoral Center staff honors Child Abuse Prevention Month

Organized by the Office of Child and Youth Protection and Safe Environment, the Diocese of Phoenix held a special rosary and Mass Tuesday at the Diocesan Pastoral Center in downtown Phoenix to honor Child Abuse Prevention Month in April. Following Mass, which was celebrated by Fr. Nelson Libera, a special pinwheel celebration was held in the courtyard near St. Mary’s Basilica. A pinwheel is an uplifting symbol of childhood, and it represents all our efforts to ensure a healthy and safe environment of children in our community.

The Diocese of Phoenix’s Office of Child and Youth Protection assists individuals and families who have been directly affected by sexual abuse, whether in the Diocese or that of their childhood.

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Conversions, reversions to Catholicism: The winding paths that lead home

Jim Nahrgang, convert, St. Bernard of Clairvaux Parish, Scottsdale

When a friend asked former professional hockey player Jim Nahrgang why he was becoming a Catholic, he gave a sports analogy. His son John had already converted and was in seminary, studying to become a priest.

“If your son or daughter was a college athlete or a professional athlete and they were playing their games in your hometown, would you like to go to watch or would you not? Would you like to participate or just kind of stand on the sidelines and not acknowledge that this is what they’re doing?”

That’s where the desire to become Catholic began for Jim.

“His ordination, basically, pushed me. If he’s going to give up his life for Christ and live a life in Christ, then I need to figure out what this is all about. Am I missing something? So that was really why.”

Jim and his wife Cindy had married and raised their children in the Methodist Church but were no longer practicing. Once their son began his discernment and seminary studies, they used to accompany him to Mass when he came for visits. They longed to participate more fully, particularly in Communion.

Jim was received into the Catholic Church at the Easter Vigil in 2019. His wife Cindy became Catholic in 2023. Fr. John Nahrgang was on hand to administer the sacraments of initiation.

Dina Ortiz, revert, St. Thomas Aquinas, Avondale

Dina Ortiz rediscovered her faith during the pandemic. Hunkered down at home, she was drawn to YouTube videos chronicling Marian apparitions.

“And there was one that really hit home with me, and that was Mary’s Miraculous Medal. And I thought, ‘You know what? I’m going to do a pilgrimage there.’”

At the same time, she was convinced that she couldn’t go on pilgrimage without first going to confession. She hadn’t been since she was 12 years old. There was just one problem: She and her husband were in an invalid marriage, having both been previously married and divorced. The couple attended Mass on Christmas and Easter and sent their son to Catholic high school.

Dina made an appointment with her pastor for confession. For two and a half hours, she confessed her sins and received counsel. At one point, the priest asked why the couple hadn’t married in the Church.

“And I said, ‘Well, we can’t be. We’re previously divorced.’” The priest encouraged them to approach the tribunal. Both received an annulment.

After returning from their pilgrimage, they began their marriage and confirmation preparation. “It was just so joyful and enriching. I can’t even tell you what a blessing it was to get married in the Church. It was a dream for both of us.” They were received back into the Church in the spring of 2022. Today, the couple serves as catechists.

Megan Mastro, revert, Mater Misericordiae, Phoenix

“I started off realizing that I was not at peace, and I had a lot of anxiety. It was getting to the point where it was getting in the way of my everyday life.” An abortion at 16 fomented inner turmoil, Mastro said.

Thus began a two-year, circuitous search for meaning.

“I went out looking for peace and got tangled up in the New Age movement.” Dabbling in crystals, tarot cards, reiki and seeking the counsel of psychic mediums didn’t bring peace. So Mastro began another search, this time for truth.

After researching the origins and studying the sacred texts of major world religions, she zeroed in the Bible. Ultimately it was the Eucharist and eucharistic miracles that sold her.

“I really knew that it was true because I was disappointed in the outcome. I was disappointed that the Catholic Church was true because I had to then had to put to death the life that I was living. And I realized that everything would have to change and that there was no other option because it was either live in rejecting what I know to be true or embrace the truth.”

Mastro began her journey back to the Catholic Church by way of the sacrament of confession. She’d been away from it for 12 years.

After her reversion to the faith, other family members followed suit. “My dad returned after 32 years.”

Today, Mastro is involved in prolife work. “I have found consolation in embracing suffering, being able to put meaning to my suffering and to unite it with Christ.”

Leila Fitzgerald, convert, St. John Vianney, Sedona

Leila Fitzgerald said she’s been spiritual her whole life. “Every time I went into a church, I would start crying. I was so embarrassed I stopped going.”

But then she met Michael, her future husband, a cradle Catholic who attended Mass sporadically.

St. John Vianney Parish is within walking distance of the couple’s home. A friend invited Leila to attend the Rite of Christian Initiation of Adults classes.

She went through the whole program, eager to be initiated into the Catholic Church. Fitzgerald met with the new pastor.

“He sat me down and said, ‘I’m sorry but this isn’t going to work and you’re not going to get baptized.’ And I started crying, I was so disappointed.”

Her preparation to receive the sacraments really only scratched the surface and had not given her the full picture of the serious commitment of becoming Catholic.

“I said to myself, ‘This is actually a blessing because this is a serious matter. This is a lifelong commitment and there’s so much more that I need to know.” She said the second go-around was much more in depth and that she’s grateful her pastor encouraged her to take a deeper look.

Fitzgerald was baptized and received into the Church on April 16, 2022. She attends Mass frequently during the week and prays the rosary daily.

“I feel like this has always been my path and that I’ve always been meant to be a Catholic because it feels so right. It’s so fulfilling and rewarding to me in my life and I feel so at peace.”

Anthony Sears, convert, Our Lady of Mount Carmel, Tempe

A Google search during the wee hours was the first step in Anthony Sears’ journey to becoming Catholic.

“The only reason I’m at the Catholic Church right now is I decided I should go to church on a Sunday at 3 in the morning,” Sears said.

Though he did not have much in the way of religion during his upbringing, Sears knew a hunger inside for God. His boss at the time invited him to attend a non-denominational church. “We went to one Sunday service, and I turned to my girlfriend at the time and I said, ‘This feels like a concert and the theme is Jesus.’

“I could tell everyone was enjoying themselves, but it didn’t feel like it was supposed to,” Sears said. He liked the weekly men’s group though where they gathered to discuss the Bible but didn’t want to return to the Sunday services.

Tragedy struck when the girl he was living with died. “I tried to do CPR and it didn’t work,” Sears said, voice breaking. The search for God in the midst of suffering continued.

While surfing the internet, looking for churches, something inside told Sears to add the word “Catholic” in front of “churches.” That’s when Our Lady of Mount Carmel popped up. It was a short distance from his house and had a 6:30 a.m. Monday morning Mass. Sears showed up.

“And immediately, being in there, even though I had no idea what was going on, I was like this feels like the correct way to do this. This is all right.”

Sears was received into the Catholic Church at the Easter Vigil on March 30, 2024.

Yancy Evans, convert, St. Thomas the Apostle, Phoenix

Yancy Evans was raised Baptist and attended private Christian grade schools. He hoped to attend Valley Christian High School, but it was too far away. Instead, his parents sent him to Gerard Catholic High School. Though the school closed in 1989, its legacy remains and Evans is proof.

“Gerard was my first place where I got a lot of formation.” During his junior year, he thought about becoming Catholic but didn’t want to hurt his grandmother who was active in his life.

After marrying a woman who belonged to a Pentecostal church, Yancy went on to become media director for their church, but his exposure to Catholicism had planted doubts. His position on the church staff ended and he began reading Scott Hahn books and watching Bishop Robert Barron videos.

For a while, the couple decided to compromise and attended the Anglican Church. “I was still feeling unsettled,” Evans said.

Eventually, it was the Eucharist that convinced him to become Catholic.

“If the Eucharist is true, then by logical extension these other things have to be true.” Evans signed up for RCIA and came into the Church in 2022.

“Ultimately it was the Eucharist that did it for me. It’s something that’s been tugging at me probably since I was at Gerard. It took this long to get there but I’m happy to be there.”

Sabrina Jeffery, revert, Holy Spirit, Tempe

Growing up in a family of six children, Sabrina Jeffery went to church every Sunday with her family. The hospice nurse drifted away from the practice of Catholicism during her young adult years but began finding her way back when a childhood friend took a job as the parish music director.

Jeffery wanted to help her friend and began singing in the parish choir.

Her mom, a woman of deep Catholic faith, never gave up praying for her daughter to return to the Church. “My mom is huge but it’s hard growing up — you don’t really want to listen to what your mom wants to do.”

But when her mother sent her a YouTube video about a psychiatrist who was brought in to deal with an exorcism, Jeffery was intrigued. “He was finding patients that did not fall under any description of a mental disorder. It was possession.”

Jeffery said that video in combination with the “state of our society as a whole, the politics and corruption,” helped push her return to the Catholic Church.

“I just felt I want to go back to my faith. It’s been a slow progression — it’s been really working on me.”

She said she now realizes that the 10 Commandments are there to protect and that not following them leads to natural consequences. She now understands that the sacraments are gifts from God. “He’s trying to tell us that He has given us all these things for our own benefit and not because He’s trying to be a dictator.

“Having that change of perspective has really changed everything.”

Jeffery attends Mass every Sunday and prays the rosary. She and her fiancé plan to marry in the Church this November.

“It just feels right. I feel like I’ve always known that I was going to come back.”

Ray Hawk, convert, St. Henry, Buckeye

Ray Hawk’s entrance into the Catholic Church started when his marriage was ending.

Growing up, he had little to no religious training and was never baptized. “I didn’t know what the Trinity was,” Hawk said. His wife was Catholic but they had been married in a civil service.

When the marriage began to crumble, Hawk said he proposed counseling but by that point, his wife had other ideas. Hawk went to talk with Fr. Billy Kosco, pastor of St. Henry, to see what could be done.

Ultimately, his marital woes and propelled him into further study of the Catholic faith.

In October of 2018, the parish hosted a series of evenings that showed Bishop Robert Barron’s Word on Fire videos. Hawk was hooked.

“The part about how when Jesus died, the veil of the sanctuary was torn — that fascinated me,” Hawk said.

Then, while listening to Catholic radio one day, he learned about original sin. “I didn’t want to die without getting baptized.”

He began attending RCIA classes in 2020 but then the pandemic hit. He was still trying to save his marriage but by 2021 it became clear that was over. He started the annulment process.

The annulment was granted one month before he was baptized. Rather than waiting until the Easter vigil, Hawk wanted a private ceremony.

“I don’t like all eyes on me. No one knows me and I just figured since I’m going to be reborn, why not get baptized on my birthday?” Hawk’s birthday is just three days before Christmas, so he felt a kinship with the birth of the Christ Child.

“It wasn’t the Eucharist and it wasn’t Mary,” Hawk said. “It was Jesus Himself. He was like, ‘Ray, come. And I’ll lead you in.’”

Phillip Rayer, revert, St. Timothy, Mesa

“I grew up Catholic, but I hit that teenage phase and disappeared,” Phillip Rayer said.

For the next 40 years, he was deeply involved in the Protestant world, serving in many ministries. Still, there were things he couldn’t reconcile. His quest for truth led him to Exodus 90, a Catholic men’s ministry centered on small groups that practice 90 days of prayer and asceticism.

“I was struggling with things a lot of men struggle with, and it was affecting me and my marriage. The questions Exodus asked I couldn’t reconcile with Protestantism.”

Then, his wife’s aunt and uncle invited him to experience the Bible Timeline with Jeff Cavins. The series tells the story of salvation via a walk through the Bible. Cavins, a former Protestant minister, converted to Catholicism some years ago.

“The first week or two I felt God saying, ‘Just be humble.’ I opened myself up to the catechesis of the Church. Literally the thing that opened my mind was studying the Fathers of the Church.” Then he started going to daily Mass.

After viewing “The Miracle Box,” a documentary on confession, Rayer was hooked. “I was like, ‘Oh my gosh! This is what I’ve been missing!’” His heart needed deep healing, he said, so he sought the sacrament of reconciliation.

The priest told him he needed to resolve the issue with his invalid marriage first. Rayer and his wife both began the annulment process. In August of last year, he was able to go to confession and then began confirmation classes and marriage prep.

The day before their marriage in the Catholic Church, Rayer’s father, who had been away from the Church for years, suffered a freak accident. Rayer called for a Catholic priest, and his father received the Apostolic Pardon on his deathbed.

Today, he sees all the trials he went through to return to the Catholic Church as serving a purpose: “It was to be there and stand up for my faith and to be focused on that moment for my father. It was all about him.”

Today, Rayer serves as a greeter at his parish, St. Timothy in Mesa.

St. Patrick’s to celebrate the Feast of St. Dymphna with mental health fair

To celebrate the Feast of St. Dymphna, the patron of mental health, St. Patrick Catholic Community in Scottsdale, Ariz., is hosting a mental health fair, May 18-19, at the parish.

St. Patrick’s has long been concerned with addressing issues around mental health and promoting awareness.

“Through our behavioral health initiative ministry, we seek to serve as an avenue to provide literacy in mental health, to reduce the stigma of mental illness, encourage conversations around mental illness, and create a safe environment for individuals to share and seek help surrounding their mental illness,” said Eric Tamayo, pastoral associate at St. Patrick Catholic Community.

At each of the weekend Masses speakers will discuss mental health awareness. Following each Mass, parishioners will find a variety of mental health information, ministries and agencies including grief support, National Alliance on Mental Illness, Parkinsons and Alzheimer, Catholic Charities Counseling, Hope Exist, Mental Health First Aid, Next Chapter and addiction resources.

With the feast day of St. Dymphna on May 15, they will also have a display for parishioners to learn more about her life along with prayer cards to assist in praying for those suffering with mental illness.

St. Patrick Catholic Community is working in conjunction with the Diocese of Phoenix’s Office of Mental Health Ministry, who will be present at the fair, to help reduce the stigma around mental health while also educating and promoting advocacy.

Part of the Diocese’s vision for Mental Health Ministry in parishes is the establishment of “The Well”, a designated space or room at the parish that is a safe space, a place of encounter for those experiencing challenges to gather and share their experiences and grow their relationship with God.

During the mental health fair, St. Patrick Catholic Community will be presented with their own Woman of the Well painting by Glenda Stevens, which will be blessed and put on display. This picture will ultimately be placed in their House of Mercy building to serve as “The Well” for groups to come and gather in a safe space.

“St Patrick’s seeks to accompany those with mental health needs in the parish and the larger community in both a welcoming and meaningful way,” said Tamayo